jonc211

@jonc211@programming.dev

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What's your favourite Star Trek theme?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  First Contact main theme > all

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Have you ever realized just how broken you are?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  So I deleted the story before I posted it, and began to realize that even though I’m 40, and should be past all this, it still hurts, and I’m a deeply broken person.

  The thing about trauma (and it likely is trauma) is that it often just doesn’t go away on its own and you need to do work on it. So, why should you be over it?

  Should is a loaded word as it pretty much always comes from what you learned as a child. I you should do that. You should be like this.

  That “should” probably comes from your father when he told you how you should be as a child.

  It sounds like you aren’t over it now, but that’s ok. It’s ok not to be over stuff that happened in childhood. But the important thing to understand is that you can get over it with work. Being aware of that is the first step on that road.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨You⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  It bothers me that the height chart suggests there are 10 inches in a foot