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• Melobol@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  You have the right to refuse anything that would put you in a messy situation. No matter the reason.

  Boundaries are there to protect yourself. Boundaries are normal - and really hard to come by.

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• lectricleopard@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  No, I think thats a healthy self awareness. Id rather have an awkward conversation about staying somewhere else than to have to deal with the aftermath of that kind of poor behavior.

  Its probably a good idea to work on yourself and get a better relationship with your libido. No one’s perfect, and admitting your faults to yourself opens the door to improving yourself.

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• Khanzarate@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Yes. Don’t put people in uncomfortable situations.

  But also, if they don’t know about the real cause, you may still hurt their feelings. If you can find another reason to decline it may go better.

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