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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/kupkakw182929 on 2023-09-18 07:34:25.

Hello so I’m (F15) the oldest sibling of 4 kids. (Liam and Ryan that are twins M13, Sarah F10 and Melanie F7). My father is a lawyer and my mom is a housewife. My mom lately has been super fixated about these social media channels of families and the clout they get and she also has been complaining a lot of how boring being a housewife is and that she plans on becoming an influencer. My mom asked me if I wanted to appear on her vids, I told her I didn’t want to because I didn’t feel comfortable abt it. It has been bothering me a bit since she’s too insistent and always tries to include me in her videos. I also feel concerned because the internet is a harsh place and my siblings are too young to be so exposed here. I tried to warn my mom about this but she didn’t pay attention to me.

Here’s where I might be the AH. I was speaking with my dad and I brought the topic about my mom starting to upload videos of my siblings in social media. I didn’t knew that my dad was oblivious of this, it seems like my mom was keeping it as a secret. My dad went to my mom and they started to fight about him not giving permission to post videos of my siblings on social media. My mom told him to “mind his own business” and that she doesn’t need his permission since they are her kids too. They continued to fight and later my dad went to work.

My mother already knew that I was the one who told him, so she got mad at me and scolded me for also not minding my own business. Since that she has been giving me the silent treatment and has been ignoring me. AITA for “snitching” on her?