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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Glass_String7891 on 2023-08-31 19:00:36.

I’ve been married to my wife for 2 years now, She is a wonderful women, I love her.

Recently last year she met up with her old college friend circle, started going out with them quite a lot, I was ok with that no probs. Her drinking skyrocketed ever since she reunited with them, again I don’t have a big issue with that.

But last month she went out with them for a weekend getaway, there where 3 men(Her college time friends) along with 2 girls. One of them were couples and other were single.

They went out partied a lot, they rented a BNB there beachside and my wife skinny dipped with them🫥🫥. And on top of that she didn’t even told me about skinny freaking dipping.

She told me all about parties, drinking, dancing. Last week one of her friend joined us on dinner and she casually mentioned the ‘fun’ they had while skinny dipping, how they played etc etc. And I was shocked. I didn’t talked to my wife for 2 days straight. Later she said I am overreacting and nothing “Dirty” happened there, she was drunk and it just happened.

I asked her to stop seeing those ‘male best friends’, I am totally not ok with her spending any more time with them, My wife said that I am being old school and overreacting here.

See, I am a liberal but it’s beyond my limits, my WIFE naked with other men? Nah, I can’t deal with that. They might be her old besties and the other women might be ok with it, but my wife playing with other men without clothes? How can anyone be ok with that?

AITA here? Or my wife is?

Ps. Its funny how people are justifying my wife’s action literally! Wow. Few people telling me I have no right to tell my wife who she can hang out with? Like WTF🤣 I Am asking my OWN WIFE not to go out with other MEN who goes NAKED with her? And I am wrong here? The audacity of some people here is off the roof. I would never ever drop my pants with someone else’s wife, period.