IT help for the parents; It should be quick – Expectations vs. Reality
Submitted 3 hours ago by jeena@piefed.jeena.net to technology@beehaw.org
https://jeena.net/parents-it-help
Submitted 3 hours ago by jeena@piefed.jeena.net to technology@beehaw.org
https://jeena.net/parents-it-help
scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 1 hour ago
At some point I learned to set boundaries with my mom and IT help. I know I’m good at it, hell I worked geek squad for years, but she got demanding. Started calling me out of the blue demanding help even if I was in the middle of something.
“My printer doesn’t work”. “Okay, well I’m out right now… I’m not even home”. “BUT I NEED TO PRINT SOMETHING FOR TOMORROW” “Okay, well if it’s that urgent the library has printers, or the FedEx office can do it. I can help you in a couple of days on my day off”
Me helping is a gift, it’s something I give to you, it’s not something I am required to do or an obligation. Since a couple of confrontations like that it’s gotten much more manageable
HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 17 minutes ago
It has been a running gag with friends when I had to help my mom save a file on a disc, it took over half an hour, and it still failed.