This is an automated archive made by the Lemmit Bot.

The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Smug_Nectarine on 2023-08-02 20:10:24.

I (18f) love my boyfriend (21m) but yesterday we got into an arguement that made me very upset.

Yesterday my boyfriend and I were watching a movie together and I was sitting on his lap. I got up to get drinks halfway through, but when I sat up I noticed that there was blood on his jeans. Moments later he noticed it too, and I apologised, realising I must have started my period.

My boyfriend freaked out and started shouting at me, asking why I’d ruined his favourite jeans. He stomped up to the bedroom and slammed the door.

I felt pretty upset and guilty, especially when I checked my period tracker and realised I was due to start today, and I should have been more wary that I was close to starting my period.

Today he’s apologised for shouting, but says he still upset about the jeans. He thinks I should have been more careful knowing that I was due to start my period today. I’ve tried to wash the jeans but they’re still stained. I feel guilty but also upset that he got so angry with me.

So, am I the asshole?