Comment on This world is cruel…
Shapillon@lemmy.world 4 weeks agoHitting the gym can’t hurt but it’s very low on my list of priorities.
Being chill, open with one’s emotions, able to communicate reasonably, willing to help around etc are way higher.
Usually being a woman helps too but life’s life.
ripripripriprip@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Those aren’t really hobbies, though.
Vilian@lemmy.ca 4 weeks ago
Isn’t drag queen literally being woman as a hobbie?
bishbosh@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
damn…
GiveMemes@jlai.lu 4 weeks ago
The issue us that the hobbies you have have little correlation with whether or not women like you. I do many things on the list of hobbies that women find unattractive, but I don’t have trouble pulling because very little of attracting a sexual partner actually has to do with having a lot in common with them. It’s more of vibey thing like that guy was saying.
At the same time, the gym is gonna help self image and self confidence which will help you be fun chill and easygoing which will help you get laid.
Shapillon@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Exactly!
As long as they’re not punt kicking kitten or dropkicking old folks, hobbies are pretty much irrelevant imho.