i get your point but some folks aren’t that put off by it, assuming they can ask for an invite and it does t take ten years. i had to work at it a bit over on reddit but i took my time and just wrote about the difficulties and in a couple weeks hey, i got an invite. i’d prefer a nicer community once i’m in to a quick and easy entry but it sucks thereafter (or is just chaotic and unhappy periodically). it’s like your house. do you just let everyone in from fear of being lonely? probably not. probably, if you’re not a outlier, you’ve taken steps to make it a bit hard for anyone not invited to enter. and it makes your home a better place to be.