Kind of a rollercoaster ride here.

me allowing my wife to have sex with women while I sit in a corner and watch as my wife and her cake humiliate me for it by calling me a pathetic loser and a pervert for watching and jerking off to them having sex does not make me a cuckold. It just make me a pervert.

This makes it sound like you’re into voyeurism, and you’re being humiliated for being one. In this read you’re not a cuckold.

But I think calling me a cuckold for watching my wife have sex with women "while they humiliate me for it is so disingenuous in my opinion.

This is cuckolding bruh. If you’re being humiliated when your wife is fucking another person, you’re being cuckolded.

And there’s nothing morally wrong with a guy being a Cuckold as long as everyone involved is consenting to it.

Absolutely agreed, but you seem to think there’s something wrong with it based on your reaction to being called a cuckold. But your definition is wrong:

However if a guy was allowing his wife to have sex with other people while his wife humiliates for it then he is of course a cuckold.

Your original definition only works for straight/gay men. This is more accurate since you can cuck and be cucked by any gender.