Comment on How do I alleviate bitterness due to lack of intimacy?
pufferfisherpowder@lemmy.world 2 months agoYour last statement stands out to me. Have you considered that it’s the way you interact with whoever you’re interested in? Rather than your looks? Are you nervous, self-conscious, whatever? I’m asking because you keep insisting that your interested in individuals out of your league. That thought would make me nervous. And on the flip side self-consciousness or awkwardness or nervousness or whatever is not very attractive. Socially it’s more acceptable to rejected someone based on looks though.
throwaway@discuss.online 2 months ago
I honestly have never thought of it in great detail. But where would I be able to get feedback on this?
lovely_reader@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Any trusted friend who’s been around to witness you meeting new people should be able to tell you.