Comment on How do I alleviate bitterness due to lack of intimacy?
pufferfisherpowder@lemmy.world 10 months agoYour last statement stands out to me. Have you considered that it’s the way you interact with whoever you’re interested in? Rather than your looks? Are you nervous, self-conscious, whatever? I’m asking because you keep insisting that your interested in individuals out of your league. That thought would make me nervous. And on the flip side self-consciousness or awkwardness or nervousness or whatever is not very attractive. Socially it’s more acceptable to rejected someone based on looks though.
throwaway@discuss.online 10 months ago
I honestly have never thought of it in great detail. But where would I be able to get feedback on this?
lovely_reader@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Any trusted friend who’s been around to witness you meeting new people should be able to tell you.