Comment on I think I am socially ostrasized, what should I do?
neidu2@feddit.nl 2 weeks ago
What gives you the impression that others are badmouthing you? In cases like this, O have come to realize that it mostly boils down to indifference. People have their own lives and social circles to pay attention to, and as such their interactions with you would be neutral, which can seem cold.
If the above is the case, you’re not ostracized, you just haven’t found anyone to connect with (yet). I suggest you attend events, and hopefully you’ll get to know someone better.
someacnt_@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
It comes from that I hear people talking bad about me. Like, saying that I am a freak (or similar).
neidu2@feddit.nl 2 weeks ago
Unless you can think of what could’ve caused this, I suggest you attend the seminars. If someone there doesn’t like you, that’s their problem.
You won’t like everyone you’ll ever meet. And not everyone you meet will like you. And sometimes there will be actual dislike in the mix. It’s just how life is.
someacnt_@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Hmm, another person commented here that attending seminar is like outsider acting like an insider. How do you think about it?