Yeah anon sounds like he’s fallen into the ‘what is masculinity’ trap of trying to fulfill all goals he’s told by other men to do or an idea of men and doesn’t understand why he himself is unfulfilled. He only knows the idea of man and never became his own friend enough to understand what might make his self more satisfied. This is why many if the happiest people have simple things they are happy about. They don’t fall for the money = happiness trap or other stupid roles that society brainwashes into people. The main complication is just getting comfortable enough with self to speak ‘hey maybe gardening/cooking is my thing’ or whatever. We’re taught to over complicate our happiness.
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Kaboom@reddthat.com 1 month ago
You need some sort of goal in life, and anon doesn’t sound like he has one. Most any positive goal will do, just get one
Smoogs@lemmy.world 1 month ago
proceduralnightshade@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
Yeah just get one of the life goal market, something is gonna make sense eventually right haha
dudinax@programming.dev 1 month ago
You can always contribute to the great project of figuring things out.
Or find anyone you even slightly admire and help them do their thing.
Kaboom@reddthat.com 1 month ago
Are you doing okay? You didn’t sound alright