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Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 1 month agoAdvice after the fact is a useless lecture, a form of victim blaming. Saying “if you hadn’t done x, crime y wouldn’t have happened” to the victim of a crime is the very definition of victim blaming.
the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
OOP isn’t in this thread. I don’t think the user you’re chastising intended to give OOP advice, the advice was for the rest of us.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Still textbook victim blaming rather than the benevolent “advice” you seem adamant to reframe it as.
the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
Sure, champ. Everything is victim blaming.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Nope. But “you wouldn’t have been a victim if not for trusting your apparent friend” very much is.
People trust their friends with their laptops without being victimized every fucking day.