Comment on Anon has a master plan to get her boyfriend back
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 4 months agoCan’t victim blame if there’s no victim to blame.
Comment on Anon has a master plan to get her boyfriend back
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 4 months agoCan’t victim blame if there’s no victim to blame.
the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 4 months ago
Offering advice to prevent such a situation isn’t victim blaming
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Advice after the fact is a useless lecture, a form of victim blaming. Saying “if you hadn’t done x, crime y wouldn’t have happened” to the victim of a crime is the very definition of victim blaming.
the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 4 months ago
OOP isn’t in this thread. I don’t think the user you’re chastising intended to give OOP advice, the advice was for the rest of us.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Still textbook victim blaming rather than the benevolent “advice” you seem adamant to reframe it as.