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• the_crotch@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Offering advice to prevent such a situation isn’t victim blaming

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  • Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Advice after the fact is a useless lecture, a form of victim blaming. Saying “if you hadn’t done x, crime y wouldn’t have happened” to the victim of a crime is the very definition of victim blaming.

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    • the_crotch@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      OOP isn’t in this thread. I don’t think the user you’re chastising intended to give OOP advice, the advice was for the rest of us.

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      • Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Still textbook victim blaming rather than the benevolent “advice” you seem adamant to reframe it as.

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