Comment on Why do we say, "when I look in the mirror" instead of "when I look in a mirror?"
EleventhHour@lemmy.world 4 months ago
in my experience, people use both, but in different contexts.
“in the mirror” tends to more often refer to a metaphorical “mirror”, typically when discussing self-reflection
- "I took a look in the mirror and decided to change my ways."
“in a mirror” tends to refer most often to actual mirrors that exist
- "I looked into a mirror to fix my eyeliner."
kabe@lemmy.world 4 months ago
A fair guess, but this isn’t one of those times when a grammatical error becomes normalized through common usage.
There is no grammar rule that separates speaking literally versus metaphorically in this case.
“You have something on your face; go take a look in the mirror” is just as correct in English as "I need to take a good look in the mirror and change my ways.
EleventhHour@lemmy.world 4 months ago
yes, but only if you’re referring to a specific mirror. so, “go look in the mirror” would be appropriate if you’re also indicating to/pointing at a mirror, or there’s been a specific mirror under discussion already (or if the audience already knew there was only one mirror they could be referring to.)
also, it’s not technically a grammatical error, but one of poor style/form.
kabe@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Nope, as I explained in my other comment, it’s standard usage.
In English, we often use the definite article when speaking in general about a specific activity or action that involves a non-specific object. E.g. “go to the bathroom” or “catch the bus”, or “read the newspaper”. It’s not poor form at all.
EleventhHour@lemmy.world 4 months ago
you explained more or less what i did, except the whole “using the grammar and spelling of a 3 year-old is valid because language is fluid!” BS argument i outright reject–
and your claims of being an English teacher? it bears no weight here.
Argument from authority