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exocrinous@startrek.website 3 weeks agoI told you they did a bad job doxxing me. You didn’t fact check shit. You just tried to take a peak at someone else’s private information. There are privacy-respecting methods of fact checking that would actually work in this situation, and you didn’t use them.
1: Saying that this specific account is an Alt for Drones Rights is not doxxing, when you are being banned for Ban Evasion
2: Everything you put onto the internet is public info, dont put or say anything online that you dont want users to have access to
I’m quite open about being Drone Rights. I’ve never hidden it. Some people have tried to gotcha with “you’re drone rights”, and I said “yes… That’s obvious. I even moderate the community from this account.” But there’s another person who is closeted about their gender and has been accused of being me by an instance admin who claims to have access to secret logs that say we’re the same person. Given that I have faced massive amounts of harassment, abuse, and transphobia for being openly dronegender, and they are not open about their gender, you can see how I would not want them to be exposed to people like you.
rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
One thing I did see in your modlog was a lot of removals and bans for toxicity and I’m starting to understand why.
Kedly@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
Their Modlog was WILD xD
exocrinous@startrek.website 3 weeks ago
I’ve never been toxic on Lemmy, and I’ve never violated the rules of an instance or community I was commenting on.
Kedly@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
I’ve seen your modlog, it shows the banned messages. You are frequently toxic, and if the disorder you are talking about is narcissism, then yeah, that fucking sucks, but its REALLY HARD to have empathy for a dangerous asshole. If you dont have the ability to naturally have empathy, you need to learn how to fake and maintain it, because empathy is a two way street, and we arent going to give you any if you arent going to give us any
exocrinous@startrek.website 3 weeks ago
Sorry, but my empathy is very deeply impaired and there’s almost nothing I can do about it. The empathy I feel for others is very finely tuned, I have plenty of it, I always know and understand what other people are feeling. But the empathy I GET from others is nearly nothing. I receive an impaired sense of empathy from neurotypicals. Other people with NPD have been very kind to me, but neurotypicals make a choice not to put in the 10% extra effort it takes to feel empathy for a person with NPD. That’s why you think I’m toxic. You’re choosing not to feel empathy for me. You’re choosing not to understand the position I’m in, and so when I complain about a problem or try to fix it, you think I’m complaining about nothing.
The only thing I can do to resolve my problems with empathy is to campaign for greater recognition of the fact that we disabled people ARE people. Whether you choose to listen is something entirely out of my control.