I’ve been cheated on, even falsely accused of stuff after because she was such a petty narcissist, but even after all of that I would never wish physical harm on her. Thats terrible. Yeah, she created a mess of her own choice, and I have to deal with the permanent reputation damage and emotional damage, but that doesn’t mean I would want her to be in a car crash, much less incapacitated or put into a coma.