Comment on What kind of institutional gaslighting is this?
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 7 months agoNo matter where you want to achieve something, you have to show initiative for it to happen.
Right now we’re talking about work and they say they won’t work harder for advancement? Then they won’t get advancement.
If we were on a DIY and we were talking about building a fence and they were saying “I won’t take time from my day to make it.” my reaction would be the same, show some initiative or don’t complain if shit doesn’t happen.
People can complain about nepotism and jobs not going to those who deserve it, but they can’t complain about jobs also going to those who decide to put in the work while they’re doing the bare minimum.
irmoz@reddthat.com 7 months ago
What you call “quiet quitting” IS putting in the work. You even said it yourself - it’s doing exactly what is expected of you.
What you call “showing initiative” is allowing yourself to be ruled by the whims of a wannabe master. If they wanted you to do more, they should have put that in the job deacriotion. And if there’s still work to be done, they should have hired another person. 1 can’t do the work of 2.
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 7 months ago
It’s as if you didn’t read what I said.
If your goal is to stay in the position you’re in then do what you’re paid for and nothing else, but don’t complain you’re not offered the same opportunities if you see someone showing they’re ready and able to do more get promoted, no shit people will assume you can’t do more if you don’t show them you’re able to, that applies to everything in life, not just work.
You won’t get stronger by always curling the same dumbbell for the same number of reps. No one will just take your word for it if you say you’re able to run a marathon in 4 hours if they always see you sitting on the couch playing video games.
Hell, with your mentality why go to school? I mean, who are they to rate your work? Why should you need to prove to anyone that your understand what you were taught? You know you do and that’s what’s important and people should realize that and offer you a job based on your confidence that you’re the best surgeon in your country! Right?
irmoz@reddthat.com 7 months ago
Citation needed for this alleged complaining
Also - don’t make me laugh by comparing sucking up to your employer to genuine self improvement.
Like I already said - I do have initiative. I just use it for myself, and those I care about.