Comment on Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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Tuss@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

That is more than “Hey come here”.

If it’s “hey come here (look at this for 5 seconds)” it’s a completely different thing that him getting his knickers in a bunch because you’re not following his narrative when you’re taking care of the household.

The way you described it was more of him seeing something on the pc and asking you to come look or him asking you to come over and help him temporarily with something.

Not disregard household chores so that you can play his game in the middle of the night.

I would say it’s two different things completely.

I am sorry that I misunderstood the situation. I would also tell him to man the fuck up or there will be consequences. And the consequences would be you not doing his part of the dishes or his psrt of the laundry so that he will have to pick up the slack or however the hell you want to retaliate. Unacceptable. You deserve someone who appreciates you for whonyou are and what you do.

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