Comment on When asked a question, what is your first reaction, to answer the question or to defend yourself?
oo1@kbin.social 2 months ago
Normally I like to treat questions like telephone calls; ignore them for as long as you can and hope they go away.
I guess that is basically defensive but maybe "passive defensive".
It's what I do to viruses too.
spiderwort@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Simply ignoring a question is difficult for me.
I feel compelled to answer. And kinda literally. This has faded with time but still.
I’m trying to do it your way. It seems healthier. Especially in this place.