I have a different nickname for my wife when I want her to come to me. So it’s just so easy I just have to shout and she’ll show up in a matter of seconds. But if call her by regular name, she’ll just reply asking. WHAAAT?

Also I think you’re bothered because “come here” is just so basic, feels like an order, we see ourselves as something being told to dogs. Just two more words can change the tone a lot “can you come here?”