Comment on degree in bamf

• AOCapitulator@hexbear.net ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Someone is telling you there are issues with your posts, you then went looking at your own posts and saying to yourself “no, the rest of these are fine”

  Do you not see the issue here?

  You didn’t know any of them were not fine in the first place, that’s why you posted them, because you were ignorant about the context and implications

  Not an insult, ignorant means you were unaware. Continuing in ignorance after it’s been pointed out, however…

  That’s some dumbass shit right there

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  • stoy@lemmy.zip ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    1. Yes I do believe that most of what I posted here is fine apart from two comments.

    2. Ignorant is often used as an insult, but I se and concede your point.

    3. I am annoyed at the post talking about skin color when it wasn’t needed to make the point. I suppose I get pissed off since I am a white man who tries his best and get lumped in with this shit, I remember back ten years ago when femenists talked about ceyibg men and how they were drinking male tears, I webt through a very tough period of time then and cried a lot, and I guess I took and still take it a bit too personal.

    4. I am fine with a bit of hostillity, but do get extra annoyed when people just assume the worst and come in all guns blazing taking everything I say as being completely terrible and decide I am a horrible person.

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    • AOCapitulator@hexbear.net ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I get you on 3. and your feelings are totally valid

      4. sorry this was friendly fire, it almost always isnt and is worth the risk, but I am sorry if that means anything to ya

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      • stoy@lemmy.zip ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Thank you, am glad we at least can see eachother as people and not just trolls trying to mess with eachother

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• Adkml@hexbear.net ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Take a look at the fucking thread and note the thirty other identical comments all being as intentionally totally stupid and ignorant as you are.

  That where the hostility comes from. You assholes constantly making the same dogshit excuses for having the exact same political beliefs as chuds but still acting morally superior to people who don’t reflexively get offended if somebody dares criticize some old white asshole.

  If you still don’t understand why the smug sanctimonious asshole being an old white dude and is relevant to women’s experience I stem please for the love of God at least shit the fuck up and stop feigning ignorance. It’s really obvious at this point nobody’s going to change your mind because you’re determined to disregard anything that criticizes white hegemony. Just like the chuds you love yo look down on while having the exact same belief system.

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• Kuori@hexbear.net ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I made one post annoyed about the skin color being complained about, I also noted that I hate the word “mansplaining”

  nobody needed to see more than this to know you weren’t worth their time

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  • stoy@lemmy.zip ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Anyone that easily offended that they won’t even consider asking why is probably not someone I would stand anyway.

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    • Kuori@hexbear.net ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      don’t care, didn’t ask. cry elsewhere anti-cracker-aktion

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      • stoy@lemmy.zip ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        While I am in general a huge advocate for men to feel safe to cry without ridicule and have cried a lot during heavy depression, I see no reason to do so now.

        What the broken cracker means, I have zero idea, so I googled “anti cracker aktion” and only got result about campaigns to ban firecrackers, which seems perfectly resonable, but I suspect it means something different here.

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