Comment on Why does “come here” bother me so much?
Tygr@lemmy.world 11 months ago
20 years ago when my wife and I first got together, we had a lot of minor issues like this (minor to me not for you).
She was a “come here” lady and I would prance, leap, breathe like a dog, move my head in joyous ways and bark as I came to her. It was a hilarious way for me to say it’s kinda disrespectful.
It’s all about communication. Just have a talk.
RadButNotAChad@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Wait. Communicate about how something that your significant other does that bothers you instead of coming to the internet to see if it should bother you in the first place? That seems completely unreasonable. Talking bout feelings. Jeez.
But for real, you hit the nail on the head. A little bit of ‘When you do X it makes me feel Y’ goes a long way.