H1jAcK@lemm.ee 7 months ago
Is this person known to be friends with each group, by each group? Or are they trying to keep their connections hidden, as well?
H1jAcK@lemm.ee 7 months ago
Is this person known to be friends with each group, by each group? Or are they trying to keep their connections hidden, as well?
Pat12@lemmy.world 7 months ago
They keep their connections hidden; it is the other groups who when asked state that they are friendly with this person.
thantik@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Honestly I’d feel quite attacked if I were on the other side of this questioning.
Pat12@lemmy.world 7 months ago
sorry what do you mean?
thantik@lemmy.world 7 months ago
You’re actively having people ask who their friends are, and they’re being guarded about it.
If you felt like you might be kicked out of a group of friends that you really liked, because of your association with someone THEY didn’t like; wouldn’t you be a little guarded too?