If your wife is using text instead of talking to you, I would consider that a sign of respect.

Nah, she’s just super lazy. LOL

She knows I’ll be working, but I have to “come here” because “Can you bring up my water?”… literally just ask me to bring up water and save me two trips and 15 minutes to get back into what I was doing!

It’s a habit that needs to be deprogrammed.