My wife does this, and I understand where you’re coming from. Especially if I’m in the middle of something. Although, at least for me, it’s usually a nice thing she wants to show me, I’d rather know what she wants me for before I make my way over to her. If I ever need her presence I go to her and tell her what I need her for, but she always tells for me in another room. I think that’s what bothers me about it. I’d like her to do for me what I do for her.