The problem is that the average sub has a deathwish and they cum harder in proportion to how close they get to it.
Comment on The myth of "consensual" choking
Gonzako@lemmy.world 14 hours agoYeah, the cuties ask me for the lack of oxygen high. I’ll keep ya words in mind
trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
Gonzako@lemmy.world 8 hours ago
One can only go so far tbh.
eupraxia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 minutes ago
It is fair, I think, to set your own boundaries with how close to choking you are willing to get - consent requires BOTH to enthusiastically consent, not just the sub.
I think a safer scenario involves some playing along from the sub. A firm non-choking grip just below the throat to signal to them to hold their breath - that way they can actually breathe the entire time and reflexes can kick in if they need to, but you are strongly encouraging them to play along with the pre-established signal instead of actually restricting airflow. To someone deep enough in subspace that can feel just as intense as an actual choke without the risk.