Hey so, I get you are trying to sound supportive, but let me offer some constructive feed back. (1) referring to someone’s reconstruction as correcting “disfigurement” is tone deaf at best and out right rude at worst. Read the room. (2) You don’t get to decide if a surgery is valid, be it cosmetic or otherwise. Only the person being operated on gets to make that call. You are looking from the outside in with 1% of the information the patient is working with. Your judgement on other peoples medical care is not needed or appreciated.