Comment on Anon loses his virginity

Pharmacokinetics@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• FatTony@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  now I am asexual because of this

  If you feel like sharing it, how did you get to this conclusion?

  source

  • Pharmacokinetics@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Sex slowly lost its appeal since I took no pleasure from it. I still watch porn and jack off only so that I can get back to work and focus on it. I am genuinely considering sterilization.

    source

    • subignition@kbin.social ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I think you ought to try a therapist first. I don't know your life but it kinda sounds like arousal might not be the root cause and something deeper is going on.

      source

      • Pharmacokinetics@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I dont really see this as something that major that would warrant professional help. I just dont feel sexual pleasure. There are other forms of pleasure. It’s not that much of a big deal for me.

        source

        • -> View More Comments
    • TheBlackLounge@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Vasectomy doesn’t change anything wrt horniness etc. Removing testicles isn’t possible, you need testosterone to live healthily. Unless you take estrogen to compensate, but that’s another matter. It would help with horniness though. Some SSRIs could work too.

      source

      • Pharmacokinetics@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Honestly, I wouldn’t even think of using any meds or going for an operation, but because of how there are just things that make me horny all over the internet, I can’t control myself. Horny posting is everywhere, and I can’t even filter it out properly.

        I know I can’t properly be ever happy, but I just dont wanna be horny anymore.

        source

        • -> View More Comments
    • decisivelyhoodnoises@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Man you are saying you’re considering sterilization, on the next comment you say that you have accepted that you will never find joy, and on the other comment you say that you think that nothing is that big that worths seeking professional help. Get yourself a favor and go to a therapist

      source

      • Pharmacokinetics@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        What I mean by that is that I dont have doubts in my mind. I identified the problem, and I am now looking into logical solutions. Why should I pay 200$ to a shrink for them to tell me the same thing?

        source

        • -> View More Comments