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PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

Literally you said that nobody is attracted to intellect.
People disagreed with you, based on their own personal attraction
You lost your mind and called everyone liars and asserted that you know the majority of this sample better than they know themselves.

And your justification is because some song expresses that women are shallow? That’s the only evidence that you provided that this “comes from reality”, and you’re putting it up against everyone in this threads first hand experience.

This strongly reads like you just discovered you’re shallow, but that doesn’t match your self image, and rather than reflecting on it and adjusting your self image, you’re unable to sit with the discomfort so you project shallowness onto everyone else so that you can feel like it’s normal instead of a flaw.

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