Is it possible you have issues detecting satire, sarcasm, and tone? I’m generally pretty good with satire and sarcasm but I can have issues both reading into a tone that doesn’t exist in a message or conveying my thoughts in a message that doesn’t sound angry or aggressive. Realizing that that is a common thing for a lot of people on the internet has helped me understand the internet and people’s intensity on the internet better—being that they are responding to something they think is real hate. That problem seems tenfold on Lemmy somehow though