Comment on How do people easily find out that I'm an easy to pick up on?

Pennywise@quokk.au ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• throwingthisfr@lemmy.cafe ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  No, I’m not. I’m pretty chill dude.

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  • Pennywise@quokk.au ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Ok. Why laugh? Are you amused? Didn’t seem like it.

    Set boundaries. Don’t laugh if it’s not funny. Some people like pushing buttons… Your buttons in this case.

    “That’s not funny. I don’t appreciate those kinds of comments.”

    Have you tried that? Cuz usually when people stick up for themselves they don’t need other people to do it for them.

    How about “Stop. I won’t tolerate this harassment.”

    And body language is important here. You don’t smile. You don’t laugh. You look at them with a look of disgust and contempt. “If looks could kill.”

    And then you go talk with HR. And then HR has a talk with them.

    Good luck!

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