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HCSOThrowaway@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Except women also have those connections.

  The price may be different, like a baby blanket for their neice.

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  • gnu@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Men doing something negative is readily called toxic masculinity. Men doing something positive however can’t be non-toxic masculinity because women do something similar but different…

    Is it really that hard for you to admit that masculinity can be associated with positive things?

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    • HCSOThrowaway@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Some people just hate men and can barely contain that. They may not even know it themselves.

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      • uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I don’t hate men, but masculinity is a millstone.

        There’s a difference.

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    • uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      All the virtues associated with manhood in the 1970s and 1980s turned into general adulting in the 1990s and aughts.

      In 2026, what it is to be a man is asserted by social media personalities like Matt Walsh, Ben Shapiro, Joe Rogan, the Tate brothers. The conversation on masculinity is dominated by the manosphere on social media and far-right television.

      Expressions of manhood are on full display when Josh Hokit disparages Michelle Obama, when Trump intervenes in the world cup to cancel a red card and lift the one game penalty on Folarin Balogun. Or when US Representative Max Miller doubles down on his innocence in a video making common DV gaslighting arguments in the face of credible abuse allegations, on the presumption that his MAGA base won’t care and will still vote for him.

      Masculinity in 2026 is demonstrated when you discharge your strength in malice or cruelty or bad taste to show the world you are beyond the reach of consequences, or do not care what consequences occurr.

      But sure. I’m AMAB and have been criticized for half a century for being inadequately masculine. I’ve been repeatedly bullied and disregarded because I’m a wuss or a wimp. But I’m still game. I’m still open to an argument:

      Tell me of a positive human trait that is particular to men that is not also expected of women by our society?

      I’m not saying good men don’t exist. To the contrary, there are plenty. But I am saying what makes them good is not a feature of their masculinity, rather it’s a feature of being a functional adult in a (rapidly deteriorating) liberal society.

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      • HCSOThrowaway@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Tell me of a positive human trait that is particular to men that is not also expected of women by our society?

        Tell me of a positive human trait that is particular to women that is not also expected of men by our society.

        Ultimately there are things that men tend to do that are positive and there are things that men tend to do that are negative. This post is an example of the former.

        In other words, you’re over-complicating things because a handful of jackasses want to redefine what being a man is, and you declare that because they exist there cannot be anything (left) that is masculine. That makes no sense and is caving to their whims.

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  • GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If you don’t know a Kevin, you definitely know an Ashley. And Ashley knows everyone who has a grandma with a group of retired friends who are itching for something to do.

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  • HCSOThrowaway@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Men can also do feminine things. What’s your point?

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• VitoRobles@lemmy.today ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Absolutely

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