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Lonely man here. I’ve been raised to think that every man are pervert and women keep getting catcalled and harassed in the street. I’m so ashamed of myself that I just cannot approach a woman without thinking I will annoy her and will be rejected no matter what I try. So just… don’t.

I understand people using LLM for romance. I don’t use it because of big corps. But If I had a fully local, fast, LLM, I think I would also use it.

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clover@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
To give a specific actionable practice, find a local public hobby meetup and go to it.

Joining a sea shanty sing-a-long at a local bar changed my life

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- gandalf_der_12te@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
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chuckleslord@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
That’s another example. People are just people. If you interact with them, you’ll be shocked to find that most of them have just as complicated relationship with the world as you do. You don’t need to be afraid that everyone views you as a monster because of your gender. They don’t. They won’t trust you initially cause we live in a time of low trust (most interactions you have are people trying to get one over on you, because of the anonymity of the interaction). All that it takes to get over that is more interactions with the same people. Then you’ll be more confident in other interactions with strangers going forward.

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