Well yeah, we’re together since more than 12 years now, so by now she knows me and we’re actually cooking together - usually the one with the idea what to cook takes the lead and the other one assists

So it’s not a major problem, but there is always room to improve :⁠-⁠)

I’ve already tried different ways to ask, but as said, she knows me and can read between the lines ;⁠-⁠)