I’m a woman and I’ll even agree with you women should be able to make private spaces that let in only who the women inside choose - that’s not how public restrooms work however. I have no particular expectations when using a restroom beyond having a private stall to use for my self and others and I don’t actually care what their genitals, DNA, way of dress or body look like in anyway and that they follow bathroom decorum, mind your own business unless it’s to say something nice or helpful to someone else. If all bathrooms were just private ceiling to floor with doors that don’t have cracks around them and anyone was allowed to use them I think that would be ideal and help everyone because bathroom usage could be spread among a larger number of stalls, likely shorten the route to a bathroom if you don’t have to go searching for your gender and I say this as a person who use to use portable oxygen finding a toilet only for me when I was at my most sick knowing I had to dedicate more of my very limited energy to tracking down a woman’s bathroom sucked.

Over all no, don’t put words in women’s mouths. If you are a woman and you feel that way then speak for yourself don’t involve the rest of us, thanks.