I was confused as to the difference, and had to scroll way too far down my search results to find urban dictionary. Maybe I’m just too far gone into BDSM, but I thought any group of individuals partaking in the debauchery of another would qualify, regardless of gender, amount of top/dom and bottom/sub participants, etc.

Plus like, if you have 5 + 1, someone (multiple) is going to feel left out in this situation, and that’s not fun. Everyone should get a turn! It’s only fair, and the sub(s) can grade them on their performance, incentivizing them to focus on both dom and sub, but to also go beyond and do a better job than those before them.

I mean uh. Ha ha ha… Who was talking?