The 54321 exercise (or a variation of it, anyway) has gotten me through so much stuff. I recommend it all the time.
The version I was taught had me think of 5 things I can see, 5 things I can hear, 5 things I can feel, then the same with 4, 3 etc., skipping smell (which I can’t do) and taste!
StickyDango@lemmy.world 3 days ago
I have an “anxiety first aid kit” in my bag for exactly this when I can’t get out to greenspace. I have:
menthol cough lollies (smell, taste, feel)
headphones (hear), and earplugs (hear, for when I’m overwhelmed and need some quiet)
hand warmers (feel, one of my first signs is cold/numb fingers)
a nostalgic menthol rubbing oil that my mum used to use on my neck and chest whenever I was sick as a kid (smell)
peppermint oil for when I’m nauseous (smell)
I wear a ring (feel).
If I resort to headphones, I also use the Balance app and pick one for dealing with anxiety. It gives me something to focus on when someone is telling me what to do.