Comment on Is there a word for people who will mess something up and blame the victim for it?

melsaskca@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• 8oow3291d@feddit.dk ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  “Gaslighting” is a lie told where the victim knows it is a lie. So could be.

  But with one subtlety: If the “liar” is a narcissist, then the “lie” is often believed by the narcissist themselves, making it not a lie as such - since “lie” implies they know it is untrue.

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