Comment on My brother wants to for Father's Day is volunteer at the local women's shelter. Not really a father but has two dogs. But is afraid to even ask because he is male. How does he go about this?

cheese_greater@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

• Patnou@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Because I had an abusive relationship when I was straight and would get constantly raped by my fiance and I never told anyone until years after it ended. My brothers kind of feel responsible so I guess this is their way of correcting a long ago wrong.

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  • Krudler@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    A woman’s shelter is not his personal tool. Tell him to stay the fuck away from this stupid and destructive idea.

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    • AA5B@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Or a less douchey version is …. While this may be well intentioned, it’s really not going to work and he needs to find another way to contribute

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      • Krudler@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        I think a more direct approach is necessary for someone so delusional and self-centered.

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