Who is putting “so much focus” on that one area?

It’s literally a sleeveless dress that accentuates that particular area.

I literally have no problem with whether she shaves or chooses not to shave, or stubble, or whatever. As I stated before, I am completely capable of being attracted to women who don’t shave their armpits.

And like I said, I think that if a man goes sleeveless and his armpit hair is visible, that also looks pretty bad.

My recommendation was just “In that situation, maybe get a different dress, one that doesn’t accentuate your armpits.”