Your opinion may shead some light on the topic, regardless of your skin color. Please enlighten me. I doubt I have as much experience as you? Are you located in the PNW?
breezeblock@lemmy.ca 6 days ago
I have a lot of experience, but since I’m not a black male I’m not sure if my experience means anything to you.
But if you’re able, after you figure out Asian women — can you come back and explain how to date black women…??
NeverHomeSick7@thelemmy.club 6 days ago
breezeblock@lemmy.ca 4 days ago
I’m not in PNW.
I wrote that kind of tongue in cheek expecting it to provoke you into realizing that that’s a greater difference between individuals that been races or even cultures — but it sounds like you a uniform experience with one kind of culture at least!
I would say that what matters most is the individual person you’re with — and not their culture or parents culture. But that’s easy for me to say all the way over here.
NeverHomeSick7@thelemmy.club 4 days ago
I feel that culture matters. I am not seeking an uncultured person and I love identity. I love music and variety. I want to share and partake. However, I dont want to be one size fits all and there is only one way with everything and everyone. I would hope my partner could appreciate that personally.
NeverHomeSick7@thelemmy.club 6 days ago
I am sorry, I can’t. I’m not a woman. What I can offer is this, they are not all the same. I have dated Black women that went to college, church; job and no job; weed smoker and non weed smoking…and the black women still want to hit me. Just try not to piss them off, I suppose. I personally love a woman that can and doesn’t mind throwing hands. Be in the gym or defending her self if need be. However, if any woman raises her hand toward me I’m out.
I think a lot of movies and bad parenting or lack of parenting are the vectors as to why women feel its okay for them to assault a male and think it’s okay and not against the law. I don’t. I also dont think a male is a man if he raises his hand to a woman; without a righteous cause in the purest of action. I know we dont live in a perfect world and thus there are no perfect women nor men. So, I excuse her throwing stuff at me or slapping my chest with tears in her eye’s. If I did something wrong, talk about it and if I cross the boundary again, I dont respect you and you should leave me. As if and when she crosses that boundary, I’m leaving her.
I vented.
breezeblock@lemmy.ca 4 days ago
I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s abuse, it’s wrong, and it’s criminal. My heart goes out.
NeverHomeSick7@thelemmy.club 4 days ago
Thanks.