My bad, I thought you were arguing in good faith. easy mistake. But apparently I hate queer people now.

So this is not addressed at you, but at other people who might read this:

The example of me being a straight man does not matter at all. I could have picked any other group. The solution to a society that is oppressive to some (like homosexual women) is not applying the same rhetoric of oppression and stereotype to groups that are more likely to do that oppression (like heterosexual women).