I was gonna just say “yeah, that’s textbook demisexual” but at the end I see you realized that already.

Not sure why you feel possibly invalid when it sounds like (based on this post alone) that you are the actual dictionary example.

I’m still kinda figuring it out, but I’m thinking I’m double demi for now (not sure if there’s another word for it).

For me I am far from completely nonsexual (basically allos’ only version of defining “asexual”), but it would only be important at all in a solid relationship (if I could even get that being demiro).

I just don’t feel an urge to go out and “get some”, but if someone I felt familiar and safe with just landed in my lap naked, then something has a decent chance of happening.

I consider that valid asexuality. It might be kinda “dictionary”-like too, but you don’t see a lot mentioned of people having the green and purple stripe (demiro/demisexual). Or at least I don’t.