In my forthcoming book, “Therapy Nation,” I argue that our culture has become increasingly fluent in the language of validation and self-analysis while growing less comfortable with challenge, standards, and the harder work of building resilience. Nowhere is that imbalance more visible than in the lives of young men who have been encouraged to interpret themselves endlessly but rarely challenged to build a life.

Nope, this is a toxic as hell way to see people, and honestly it is a way to see people grounded in toxic masculinity.

This article sends completely the wrong message and I find it alarming.