thought about it. I’m still unsure because I was trying to have a conversation and compare numbers, but no need to elaborate I dont want to offend you further
Comparison of the amount of friends one has is not good. It does not speak to quality of the friendships and can cause further issues for people if they don’t “measure up”. Genuine curiosity can be inflammatory.
big_slap@lemmy.world 1 month ago
thought about it. I’m still unsure because I was trying to have a conversation and compare numbers, but no need to elaborate I dont want to offend you further
HikingVet@lemmy.ca 1 month ago
Comparison of the amount of friends one has is not good. It does not speak to quality of the friendships and can cause further issues for people if they don’t “measure up”. Genuine curiosity can be inflammatory.
big_slap@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I wasnt trying to compare amount of friends. I wanted to know how many friends reach out first that you feel is a sufficient number.
I think 3 is okay imo, but I figure you’d like more than 3? unsure, hence why I asked
HikingVet@lemmy.ca 1 month ago
How about we don’t do numbers of individuals yeah, because again that’s a misleading piece of information.