I’m curious what the female / non-binary version of this is, because being distracted by someone’s attractiveness in an inappropriate context and trying to navigate the situation and/or think about something more appropriate is relatable to me.

Same. I can’t control what my reaction to attractive people is. My brain starts pumping out chemicals that make me want to say or do dumb shit and I have to navigate that while trying not to creep someone out. Sorry. I’d turn it off if I could.