Comment on Wife Material
LittleTransPunk@lemmy.world 7 months ago
I’ve hit that same jackpot. All my previous relationships were toxic AF and now I’m with my 2 girlfriends who I trust more than myself. I even have a history of lying to prevent pain and I just can’t lie to them even if I try. They are truly the best things to ever happen to me and I would do anything for them especially since I don’t even have to change a thing about myself to make them happy
Sanyanov@lemmy.world 7 months ago
To be clear - it’s a polyamorous relationship, right?
LittleTransPunk@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Yes, I wouldn’t have two families. One is enough.
I just like a big one
Sanyanov@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Nice!
MightyGalhupo@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Does it have to? What’s wrong with them sharing him without liking each other?
Sanyanov@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Nothing wrong with that, it’s just that cheating came to my mind first, but it’s obviously not the case :)
LittleTransPunk@lemmy.world 7 months ago
I will admit, I cheated once in my life on one person, and though I feel bad about it I felt justified in doing so as well. It was an extremely toxic relationship where I feared going home and learned to block punches and thrown objects. It was almost a decade ago now, but even all my other relationships I’ve had wouldn’t have felt justification to cheat.
I know I don’t have to say that, but I’d rather people learn from my mistakes and I own up to all my mistakes, justified or not.
My take? Don’t cheat, just find a way, literally any way, to get out. It’s more dangerous to antagonize your abuser than to just escape.