Comment on dating
Fredthefishlord@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 hours agoOk but like. Dating and flirting talk is different from normal talk. More giggly, more vibes. Some people can’t do that for shit
That’s almost impossible to do over text.
Almost.
So I talk to them how I talk to my friends with a lot more enthusiastism.
That ends up be just turning into an essay writer and I have overwhelmed at 6 in the past year.
So maybe not normal talk either.
I’m so bad at flirting over text. I can do it irl somewhat once the first bit of convo gets jumpstarted but mannn dating apps kill me. I get far more people down to hang in person then ever from a dating app.
Formfiller@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
There’s a lot of women who can’t do that either. It’s not a movie and a lot of us have the same executive functioning disorders that make this confusing. I think people need to find someone who connects with them so pretending to be someone else is a bad strategy
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 6 hours ago
I get very connected to the randos on grindr.