Yeah they’re not ‘touching your butt’, its a whole ritual objectification thing. Its abuse but hey they’re new to it so let them lol is what people are bullshitting with

If I like to do it its OK

And if its not OK its your fault

And if its not your fault too bad I like it

And the cycle goes back around

Its the narcissistic abusers getting off doing it and not respecting boundaries like adults that makes it contemptuous

Reverse the roles and bam youre a piece of shit. Its so pathetic to hear this shit nowadays but I do appreciate your saying that cause yeah I have